FAMILY TIES

This morning I was going through some personal soul-searching and began thinking of my family, namely my siblings. I believe it is important to share our good feelings and appreciations while the other party is alive and mentally alert enough to receive the blessing.

I thought of my sister, Carolyn, who has been a rock for her huge family and for me over the years. I thought of how she seems to be able to have a kind word and a helping hand for three generations of offspring plus siblings, in-laws, and friends and associates, never letting the hurt from those who disappoint her turn to anger and bitterness; how she always has time to listen and show genuine concern.

Then I thought of my elder brother, Edwin, and remembered the time he came to preach the funeral of our uncle, Herbert. Herbert had been the real father substitute for Ed, mentoring him as a young preacher, and being his counselor over the years. I thought of how difficult it must have been for Ed to be called to preach Herbert's funeral, and how he did it with such grace, showing strength and compassion to Herbert's wife, Elice, and the rest of the family.

I remember how Mary took up the burden of raising me on return from her honeymoon at the tender young age of 18. She may see it different, but I was 9 at the time and I think we kind of grew up together. I will always be grateful that she was willing to give up a part of her life with her new husband to provide a home for her little brother.

In spite of all our ups and downs and crazy missteps and differences along the way, we have remained a cohesive and loving family. All of you are important to my life, as was my brother, Don, who has passed to the next realm and awaits our arrival so he can show us all the stuff he has collected.

May you all have a wonderful rest of your lives, and may we never lose the tie that binds us together in Heavenly love.

dtb